Thursday, March 26, 2009

Thursday

We have access to some of the computers the have at the school, but we cannot upload our pictures or hook up Troy's laptop to their computers.

We really like the children, but we are dead by 9 pm. It is their spring break and we are staying at the orphanage and so we have to entertain 24/7 and it wears us out. But it is good. So we came up on Tuesday to see the kids and the first thing they tell us is that some cousin and her mother came and wanted to take them for spring break. They said they didn't even know who they were. Just our luck. So we couldn't do any paperwork or anything on Tuesday because they were coming back on Wednesday to meet with us and the kids. We kept asking what would happen to the kids after spring break, if they were going to live with them and they said no. They tried to tell the kids that we wanted them for their organs. This has been the strangest month in our entire lives.

When the director asked them if they wanted to go with their relatives for spring break, Victor immediately stood and said, "I don't even know them, why would I want to go with them? No." Tatiana just hid her head and said she didn't know and didn't like have to answer these questions. Nastia, Anastasia, wanted to go as she was curled up on the cousins lap eating candy. So after a day of ups and downs the kids said they wanted to go to America and signed the paperwork. Troy, Natasha and I had gone for a walk to give them some time with the director. I think we all needed a little space. Although the weather was beautiful Tuesday and we walked around the pond and around the orphanage, yesterday was cold and rainy so we were jumping over puddles. And last night once again it snowed. So we ate dinner with the kids and then they readied the shower for us. It was a small square room with the shower head in the middle of the ceiling. At least we had hot, hot water. It sure felt good. So Troy and I got to spend some alone time in the shower. The kids didn't understand why Natasha and Vladimir weren't showering with us!! Pretty funny. They all line up in their underwear and the woman over their building runs them threw and scrubs them down and kicks them out in a long procession. Glad we didn't have to join them.

So today the paperwork is together and Vladimir and Natasha are finally off to visit with the judge to see when we can get a court date. After Vladimir gets back from Kyiv with the properly signed papers saying we can have a court date here. It is an insane process. Hopefully all will go well and we can come home next week/weekend. Then one of us will head back after the 10 day waiting period to pick them up and bring them home. We'll have to post pictures when we get home.

9 comments:

Wendy said...

Oh my heck!! If I had any valium I'd send it your way. Your nerves must be frazzled.
I'm probably the only reading your blog right now as it's 2 am back home. I just text my kids not thinking and I hope I didn't wake them up-no repsonse so I think I'm safe.
I hope all goes well. Our papers go to SDA on Friday. What a process!

Treasure Hunter said...

Wow! It sounds like things are finally going your way. I'm so excited for you. What a roller coaster you have been on this last month! I'm excited for the goodness and light that you will bring to these children's lives. What a blessing for all of you. Love you guys, we are praying that things go smoothly.

Jen said...

Wow, what a trip...but finally it looks as though things are moving forward. Hope all goes well as you finish up this hairy process. Take care.

Lori said...

When I started reading, I got so nervous and scared for you. Relatives seem to come out of the woodwork when somebody shows up to adopt. How do they know? It makes me feel so angry. They don't want them unless somebody else does. The shower story is hilarious. I hope everything turns out okay.

Suzie said...

Hey, Friends,
Love you, love you, love you. Prayers are still with you, and now have a little more focus as things solidify a little. Hope SO much it all works out. Any pastry shops in this town? The one in your last entry looked so European and fun! Your kids look great and seem happy, other than missing you. Hope you are ALL home soon!!

Suzie said...

Oh, Chelsey talked to eric pande this week. She asked him if you guys were back yet. He said, "No, they're still picking up their Muslim children!!". Oh Eric...

Andreas said...

That is much better news than you've had up to this point! We're praying that that this is finally it!!

However, if you get a chance, some pictures would be neat. If not, we'll just have to meet you all at the airport for a big welcome home! :-)

God bless you both.

Candice said...

Wow...what a ride you guys have had. I hope that everything goes a ton smoother for you. You two need to make sure that you are writing in a journal or something, I bet your experience could help others that go there to adopt. I'm just grateful that you two are safe (well somewhat). We love you guys and are praying for you.

Tirsa said...

You guys are serious troopers for all that you have endured over there! Hope it all ends well.